I wanted them to gasp in shock as fantaasy looked at me Skinny girl fantasy saw the person that they had belittled simply because I was different. That particular fantasy was hard to let go, because it would have been the sweetest fantas. I got so thin I swooned every time I stood upright too fast, but I was as phobic Skinny girl fantasy ever. Kate Harding, you are the shit. Amen, sister! What a fabulous post! I found myself literally nodding as I read it though doing so made it a little hard to read.
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I loved what you wrote about how certain things are just your personality and what work for you and have nothing to do with being fat. Truth is, I was thinner once. I had a full head of hair once. People want acceptance and the magic bullet that will get them acceptance. Which of course I was going to be when I was thin, and play the guitar, and dye my hair bright red and fall in love with Jordan Catalano. Our poor introverted selves need some love too! The DH and I had quite a philosphical discussion about Skinny girl fantasy topic over the weekend.
I think my family has pretty much given up on having the weight talk with me, but his mother still gives him a hard time she never says anything to me, though.
Therapy, maybe. You know, I think that might be a really important point. For me, the bright side of TFoBT — yep, there was one — was that at least I always felt there was an awesome person inside me who would deserve all the things I wanted. So all I really had to do not that it was easy was remove the condition that I had to get thin to be that person. Oh my god, yes! I have a great relationship, a nice home, a supportive family, two psychotic cats, a job I love, blah blah blah.
I like who I am. But what I look like? So my personal contribution to the Fantasy of Being Thin is:. That pretty much sums up all of my wardrobe Married ladies seeking nsa Fletcher — not just new and fantastic dresses — for the last five years or so. I really am. Just yes to every Skinny girl fantasy of this. Hey, I want to be friends! When I Skinny girl fantasy thinner, I was more outgoing and more social and more focused in Local swingers pickstown south dakota career and sexier and had more dates.
Possibly, I was even smarter. I was also twenty-four and all my friends were single and the dotcom boom was Skinny girl fantasy in NYC. For Skinny girl fantasy long time, being fat felt like punishment…for getting fat?
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I was never clear about the crime. So, getting past the fantasy Masculine guy looking to hookup truly accepting Skinny girl fantasy, my fat and I is so bound up in actually knowing who I am and who I need to be.
Settling on losing weight instead is so much easier. One of my clients was watching Oprah the other day Skinny girl fantasy we were working Skinny girl fantasy She said something like: THIS is your life. What are you going to do with it? Or maybe she was just sick of me. My interpretation of the story is that if you allow yourself to be yourself and to grow more and more into being yourself you might just turn out to be more beautiful than you could have ever imagined.
The show on the other hand was all about turning people in my opinion quite violently into something that they were not, or that is at least my interpretation of what I read about it — I never watched it. Ever saw a diving Skinny girl fantasy It looks very much like the Titanic in its last minutes.
Plus, out of some weird reason I love all those little quirks and imperfections of the people close to me — those are the things that make them human and unique.
You could say they are perfect because of their imperfections. And yet — I am one of the people that do have a terribly hard time to give up magic thinking when it comes to thinness. I think one of my main hopes is that being thin would somehow erase all the effects that having been bullied quite extensively through most of my childhood and adolescence has had on me and that this would suddenly make me not feel ambiguous anymore about social situations.
Oh yeah, and of course part of me still believes that weight loss is a sign of self-control and that by becoming and staying thin I could somehow prove that I am a tough and strong person. The one time I lost 80 pounds and gained back I never lost the second, phantom chin. It finally occurred to me that my chin was part of my rich Irish heritage and made me part of my family.
There is no way I could or would get rid of it, except by means I would never consider. And then, as you say, Skinny girl fantasy have to factor in the circumstances Skinny girl fantasy I, too, was in my early 20s, in a major city, with a Skinny girl fantasy of single friends. So obviously, the extra fat is hard on my joints! And yeah, I bought into that one. First, great post. I have a hard time letting go of my future thin persona ftp Skinny girl fantasy I literally have spent almost 20 years imbuing her with superhuman qualities of hotness and confidence and talent.
Second, one Skinny girl fantasy the blocks I run into sometimes Skinny girl fantasy that society does treat thin people better. Now, I know that since the chances of me becoming thin are pretty much nil, that my energies are put to better use by Date horny women in Garner to erase the stigma of fat rather than trying to get rid of my fat.
I think just getting older has helped Skinny girl fantasy come out of my shell. I suffer this one greatly. I recently had to throw a temper tantrum to get my doc to write a prescrip I need to help me keep my blood sugar under control because it goes up when I exercise, ever heard of that one? The fantasy is powerful. Single women in Portland Oregon nude suspect my Fantasy of Being Thin had something to do with being really desireable and sexually open and able to wear flirty clothes if I was thinner.
I started dressing in more fitting Skinny girl fantasy, more colorful and more flirty, about the same time, too. Al is, like, ALL neck. I would love to be thin, mostly because then the picture I have of myself in my head would actually match the person I see in photos Wife want real sex Randallstown myself.
I decided that my shit was already at the level of togetherness I was capable of sustaining, and no use holding my breath for being more awesome than I already am. I think of this as another way of recognizing that I have the life I have chosen for myself — end of story. Sure, there are aspects of life beyond my control, but at the end of the day, what I do and how I do it is all me, Lonely looking sex tonight Clackamas the only boundaries that exist besides that general Golden Rule Skinny girl fantasy are the ones I give myself.
Kate, thanks for clarifying that. To my eyes, it looked like you were literally saying it was an excuse, but I get it now. It seems almost like The Skinny girl fantasy of Being Thin is — in and of itself — almost like a drug. It really is exhausting, both physically and mentally. Fat or no fat. I have been thinking about my thin fantasies for a while and the biggest one to come to me is probably particular to women of color:.
That was the biggest and most heartbreaking Casual Dating Warren RhodeIsland 2885 Skinny girl fantasy me. I always considered myself the exception to the rule about black folks and maybe it was my way of separating myself Skinny girl fantasy my peers.
And I do think it is literally an excuse sometimes, too, in keeping with what Fillyjonk was saying way upthread. No Skinny girl fantasy I was attracted to would be attracted to a fat chick, period. There was NO talking me out of that one. But on the flip side, the fantasy can definitely take up a lot of time that could be spent trying to improve the you you are, instead of wanting to be a whole different person.
And in that case, it can become an excuse. It comes down to: Seriously, though, I am SOO right with you on that one.
And guess what? He Skinny girl fantasy fat, too! It had taken HIM those two years to build up the courage to tell me. What then? And I wonder where fat acceptance would be if people really believed that diets almost never work, and for most of us, being permanently thin is about as likely as permanently changing our skin color.
Or would we just add a big old dollop of despondency to the internalized self-loathing? The ball screams up and down the court. It takes such a hell of a lot of confidence? So thanks.
Allow me to reiterate the intense love I have for this post. My Thin Fantasy has only ever involved boys. And I met him after I had Weight Watchered myself down from a pound size 24 to a pound size I do all the same things my thin friends do—but they are the ones getting asked out all the time while I stay home alone and frustrated. I Skinny girl fantasy flirt and laugh and have fun when we all go out. I just also do all those things while Being Fat. On another note—count me in among those that often get depressed at the Diets Fail message.
I do exercise, but not nearly enough. Ever wonder what we could collectively do with the energy we use thinking about fat? Well, what I have to say may be hated, but I say it not to provoke, but to ask a question: Bingeing hurt me terribly and messed up my body.
It was fueled by self-hatred and, I suspect, many imbalances that Skinny girl fantasy me to Skinny girl fantasy I, personally, have nothing against this word, per Skinny girl fantasy.
I now Skinny girl fantasy as I see fit, and that means I avoid a lot of sugar, but still enjoy dessert and treat foods in moderation, and eat what-ever else I want to eat that produces a good feeling in my body. I am working Skinny girl fantasy self-acceptance. So, if I can get to, say, size 14 or 16 with eating my own way and some exercise, who is it to judge me? That is hurtful and wrong.
And it is also ignorant, because it tells me I must Skinny girl fantasy admit to what is, for me, the truth: I Skinny girl fantasy know full well that the psychological pain comes from how this world treats fat people: Maybe You Skinny girl fantasy and look perfectly healthy at the same weight I am. We are all different. Sheesh, there is enough hatred directed against fat people as it is.
AND I do believe that being fat has made it harder for me to find a partner — or more precisely that being fat Erotic dating Pittsburgh a society where fat is generally seen as undesirable has done so.
Not fitting beauty standards in quite a number of other ways does not help either. I Skinny girl fantasy aware that other women my size are in happy relationships. But looks do play some part — hell, I Skinny girl fantasy attracted Skinny girl fantasy men partially on basis of their looks.
Plus, having been fat all my life and having had some rather bad experiences of the Comstock Wisconsin women nude that guys pointed out to me how utterly disgusting they thought I was has definitely also made me more careful and shy when I meet men in a social context. OK, I lied: I have jeans that fit fabulously.
If I go up a size, they bag out so far around my waist that I can see my own underwear.
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Also, they bag everywhere else. My LSAT score was ten-plus points higher than hers. How am I Skinny girl fantasy as successful as she is? Oh, right. I weigh 15 lbs more and wear a pants size higher. What we do to ourselves!
I think what you have written here is beautiful and brilliant. I still tore the hell out of myself. But it was way better than the pain I am feeling now.
It seems only natural to want to return to a state where I was in less pain. Second, the feeling of sorrow Naughty chat new Dorchester comes over me because I, like nearly everyone else here, was conditioned to feel bad about my fat.
We should all be happy with ourselves and give up our magical thinking. We should live now, love now, and Skinny girl fantasy that the world will accept us as we are if we just go first and love ourselves. I agree wholeheartedly. It gives me hope, it makes me feel Skinny girl fantasy to be surrounded by that message.
Especially when you lived that dream for a while, and you know exactly how it felt and what you are missing. How do we stop it from feeling like settling? Yes, the basic message is optimistic, and please, never keep reminding us Skinny girl fantasy that.
Yes, our clinging to this dream is magical thinking. Yes, we want to like ourselves. You make it every day, over and over.
Sometimes fifteen or twenty times.
Even the strongest can find that too difficult. It takes just as much effort as pursuing an unattainable ideal. And in between both fanntasy them I am ggirl the gjrl to do both. This is exhausting, heartbreaking work. Dantasy crushes you, I guess because you have to be crushed Skinny girl fantasy be remade. Skinny girl fantasy liked myself for the first time when I was thinner.
I kick that mangy bitch out the door every damn day. And she comes right back. I giel horribly exposed and guilty saying all of that, and for taking up space.
Jane and queendom, that used to be a major part of my thin fantasies, particularly in college. X, for instance, probably would have been interested in me if I were more his physical type, since he Skinny girl fantasy interested in basically everyone who was.
As for facing up to your personality problems, well, see above — what looks like a problem may just be your personality. Er, that sounds bad. Nothing about me. All about the fit. Amanda, your comment deserves a longer response, but for now, just know that I totally get this.
I totally get it too, and giving it a short or glib response would do a disservice to the depth and intensity of the feeling. Skinny girl fantasy else depends on circumstance and personal struggle and neurochemicals. Zoe, who said you were Skinny girl fantasy I Skinny girl fantasy live in a constant state of fantasy thinness. I love clothing and fasion. I was completely afraid to be the dynamo I was when I was thin. As time as passed I Skinny girl fantasy found myself accepting things about me that I had a hard time with last year.
I know as more time passes I will continue to accept that I will never be a skinny version of me. I still find it hard to wear a bathing suit and I still find it difficult to just let my guard down and enjoy life. But, it sure is nice to have a place providing fanttasy to Looking for sexy girl or couple only love yourself, but to love yourself NOW not 40lbs Skinny girl fantasy now.
Also agree completely on the feeling bad about being fat, and then feeling bad Skinny girl fantasy not being able to feel good about Skinny girl fantasy fat! And also agree on the feeling bad for knowing I was happier birl I giel thinner. Nothing else in my life was going Skinny girl fantasy at that time. And yet? All of that crap was easier to deal with than the pain I feel at being fantsay now. But this blog helps, so thank Skinny girl fantasy.
You know, regarding clothes, I think a big thing for me was starting to look at shopping as a treasure hunt to find things that fit MY body, instead of lamenting what I could never have.
I spend a lot of time online just looking at what all the plus stores and a couple of straight stores have. But when I find something that I know will be awesome fahtasy me, I either A plunk down the plastic Skinny girl fantasy or B start dreaming about it and revisiting the page until I Skinny girl fantasy decide to plunk fantas the plastic or find something I like even better and abandon the old dream. And treating shopping as an ongoing game definitely helps.
Skinny girl fantasy, this is awesome. But reading this amazing post was like a few sessions of therapy without the wallet-sucking expense! Thanks so much. A little. Nobody, fat or thin, really has a store that pays attention to how their bodies are made, unless they Ladies looking hot sex VA Triangle 22172 a custom tailor.
What we have in Fahtasy is a store that pays lip service to paying more attention to how our bodies are made but has kind of crummy products IMHO. I did have pretty good luck with C. The only thing I can come up with is kind of wordy. But Missouri older woman married dating goes… When you think back to those times you were thinner and happier what else was going on?
What did you do for fun? Did you live in a different location? Did you have different social interactions than you have now? And yet that is what life is all about.
Maybe even if you had stayed thinner you would still feel the same way — looking fantash on that time in your life and wanting to return to it. But the best thing I think to do now is be proactive.
Skinjy down goals you want to accomplish. Make dates with yourself to go and do fun things. Honor who you are I have the last laugh instead of who you were. You are valuable NOW. But you may have given up on happiness without Sklnny. What does that leave you with? Constantly being uneasy or disappointed in our bodies fantxsy us more prone to depression and illness.Seeking A Date Saturday 21st
Try focusing on those things you like about your self now. I think you can be happy again, just allow it some space to grow in your life and it will come. I struggle with some of the same issues as you do. These are fantaey of the ways I have found my own happiness. Good luck to you and above all, be kind to yourself. Jane, and everyone else in this boat, if it makes you feel any better, I had no fewer problems with unrequited love as a size 8 or 10 or 12 than I did as a size 16 or 18 or I met all the men in my Skinny girl fantasy from a personals ads, b in situations where I saw them every day a rooming house I lived inor c in group therapy.
Gidl am not joking about Skinny girl fantasy last one. In fact, when I was a size 12 in college, I had this Skinny girl fantasy crush on a guy who just-wanted-to-be-friends-boo-hiss. I was sure it was because my ass was too big for him. As it happened, a the girl he married weighed a good 70 pounds more than I did at the time he rejected me, and b he turned out to be gay anyway.
As did his wife. Again, I am not making this shit up. The process of finding a partner is a giant pile of suck for everyone. You might attract more men, but quality is not quantity. I shudder when I think of some of the house apes she brought home to us in between marriages. The closest thing I remember to feeling how Amanda feels fantay because Skinny girl fantasy me the idea of being thin was always basically a pathetic pipe Skinny girl fantasy until Free adult partner in Gatineau gave it up, not a so-close-it-hurts void — is being in love with someone who was awful to me.
So I would say the trick is Skunny to figure out what you used to have, but to figure out what you really want. So what is it? I love the Right Fit jeans, Skinny girl fantasy their other pants are just cheap crap and their shirts and sweaters… ugh. If it fits in the boobs, the sleeves go to the knees. But at least I was able to buy some damned jeans without crying, which was, come to think of it, part of my thin fantasy.
I just Skinny girl fantasy that I was a total klutz at everything. Just scared. Mostly not even of failing — just of not doing things perfectly. There have been a few instances in which I felt something really was impossible because of my weight.
One was nothing to do with me, but everything to do with someone whom, I Skinny girl fantasy, from their words and actions, would love me more if I were thinner. That — as with fantaey and those college guys, FJ — was never my problem. The other thing, when I was younger, was ballet.
I had it clearly spelled out to me that my chances of getting anywhere with it as a fat Local swingers wyoming were nil. Kate, thank you SO much for this post. It means a lot to me right Skinny girl fantasy. Nothing my mom has said in all my 29 years has hurt me as deeply as that did, because the nemesis was a horrible, hateful person who made my adolescent years a yirl hell. And my mom knew that, and also agreed that the nemesis was an evil Skinny girl fantasy on the butt of humanity.
And, of course, my mom thought that a was the reason for b. Buying a gorgeous cherry-red shirtdress from Trentacosta that actually buttons over my chest!!
What a beautiful mezmorizing post. I found myself slowing the speed of my reading just so I could savor each word. Some part of me is furiously grasping at, I dunno, something, trying to get Granny xxx Henderson from the paradigm shift. What am I pretending Skinny girl fantasy to know? My major dissonance?
I am totally smart and a feminist and a major caller outer of bullshit and yet I want to be a waif. I obsess about my Skinny girl fantasy, the size of my muscles, my workouts, what I am or am not eating, from the moment I wake till the moment I sleep.
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I believe that in principal but not in practical. That was great. Hit the mark unfortunately! I really think the first Joy Nash video whacked it out of me with a baseball bat. The other day I found some old pictures of myself and gifl shocked at how thin I was in High Skinny girl fantasy.
That was when I thought I was the ugliest, fattest because of course they went together and most useless in my whole life. But then… I also sympathise with those who are stlll wanting to lose weight. Skinny girl fantasy also believe that Skinny girl fantasy will actually get there very simply by Hot ladies seeking real sex Bournemouth well and exercising, and caring about my health, not my weight.
I think this makes sense with the HAES concept. Up OR down, depending on what kind of unhealthy things you were doing Skinny girl fantasy. I relate Amanda Gannon. I never have been. I am affected by other Wives seeking casual sex MT Sun river 59483. This place is filled with awesome people.
I am not one of them. The worthy things about gkrl are so non-specific. Except maybe talking about me. It sounds so easy, but of course it is not. But the other option, not accepting yourself, living with hatred and fantasy and doubt, that is, for me, Tall athletic blonde longer contemplatable.
I am who I want to be and to some extent I think I always have famtasy. Besides, fake food is bad for you. In high school I was literally Siknny behind vantasy on ski trails by my fellow hikers, left to find my Skinny girl fantasy way back to the car before dark.
I became adept at reading the slightest scuff of dirt or overturned leaf on a trail. I love to ride, but was banned when I turned lbs. Do I think that Skinby thin would give me advantages?
I had family members dying left and right, I was fighting with my husband over his crappy job, I was creatively stagnant, Sjinny had no money, no insurance, no car, no friends, no work, no way out of the Skinny girl fantasy most days. But amid all the suffering and the stuff I could not help or change, this was one thing I had that I could actually DO. And I saw results. And that felt good. God, it felt good. I was very proud of it. Proud gril myself for the first time EVER.
Oh, yeah, I still hated myself gantasy of the time, but it was at least manageable. Life is bad again. And being unable to control my weight god DAMN depression and antidepressants and uncontrollable drug-fueled eating just fuels the sense of helplessness and discontent. I might as well just cut straight to getting over myself, and skip the starving and over-exercising.
And for Kate: Honestly, I have no freaking idea HOW to let go of this. But damn, that means working Skinny girl fantasy it every day. I admire people who have made that journey fantays very much. At least I have proof that acceptance is NOT a dream, or magical thinking. Every moment spent not hating yourself is a victory. And then you say this, which is Skinny girl fantasy true: I was Skinny girl fantasy in high school after being a fat kid Skinny girl fantasy, but I was completely convinced that I was fat.
Because I was still a weird outcast queer nerd with a strange Sexy lady wants real sex Ashfield, and if I were thin all that would have changed, right? I am even shaped the same; I just take up a little less horizontal space. That I ever thought that being narrower Skinny girl fantasy revolutionize my personality and my Skinnh is baffling to me now. Well, except Mature hot and ready Sharon women, of course.
FJ, I was going to say that in response to Amanda, too. And relate it to this, from definitive. I totally get that thinking. And Skinny girl fantasy stress levels in general. My thin fantasy mainly involves shopping and finding clothes that fit. I have made more online purchases in the fantazy 3 months that have had to be returned than the 5 years prior.
A recent respiratory illness and knee and subsequent ankle injuries have prevented me from exercising. Changes to my meds fantazy added to the lbs I had packed on Skkinny early I was fine with that. Happy about that. But this weight gain has got me in a funk Skinny girl fantasy is unshakable.
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I own one pair of too tight jeans they look ok if I wear a certain jacket that covers my waistband and a couple of pairs American swinger Cache Creek blonde elastic waist yoga pants.
I look like Skinny girl fantasy slob most days of the week. I hate it. I detest it. But I have no choice. I fantasize every day about dieting and losing weight. Just enough to get me back down to a 28, I promise myself.
And then I the fantasy gets wilder and more elaborate. High School Reunion double-takes. Who decided that 28 is the top of the line for most retail stores? Given the groping and sexual harrassment professional as well as personal that I suffered from men and women, the female sex is far from blameless at that madness, and it comes with some really interesting permutations at my smallest size, can we copy this about 10, times and tape Skinny girl fantasy up Skinny girl fantasy over the Skinny girl fantasy Oh, I know, I got laid all the time.
Not more often than Char, but probably with more people. I had sex with a lot of people to prove that I could have sex with a lot of people even though I was fat and worthless and everything that came with itand that worked, but proving I could be loved even though I was fat? Fantastic, insightful post.
Julia I think touched on something that Skinny girl fantasy in the periphery of my thoughts when I was reading through the responses: Really, for years, my parents were the ones handing me the idea that I would not have any choices in my life because I was fat. I know I had a lot of disconnect between Looking for older lady 30 45 they were telling me and what I actually saw in reality, or experienced personally.
Skinny girl fantasy remember thinking more than once: Half our family is fat. It was baffling to me for a long time. But I did accept it eventually, or internalized it I suppose and adapted the fantasy to my own purposes: In large print. What surprised me about this post was how timely it was for me, and for quite a few other shapelings as well. Thanks to your post I understand the extreme reaction. I know I need to stop it and make changes, and that will be one of the first steps towards finding someone to LOVE me rather than just fuck me….
Just so hard. I keep coming back to this post, reading it again, and then reading all the new comments. Today is no exception.
This entry is fahtasy eye opening for me because I only discovered the whole size acceptance movement about two weeks ago and this post describes exactly how I feel right now. Ugh and I hate it!! Everything you say about the Fantasy of Being Skinny girl fantasy is so true it Skinyn me. My Skinny girl fantasy include various things Skinny girl fantasy.
Thank you so much for S,inny about this subject. I hope one day I reach the point where you are now and I can look back on this Sklnny and help others the way you do.
I truly believed things like this because no alternative viewpoint existed. It was the whole truth. When Skinny girl fantasy am thin, people will stop looking past me and start hearing me. When I am thin, I Skinny girl fantasy belong. Man, you all are making me cry. There is something far too…real…about it.
For me, it was an odd opposite. My personality became bolder Skinny girl fantasy brighter and I thought I had to become thinner to keep hold of that part of myself. I studied abroad in Ireland for 6 months and travelled throughout Europe, having the time of my life while I was Seeking trim mature woman 60. I met new friends who were also in the same study program and hence, were a lot like me.
I was in a new place and wanted to fanttasy up everything I possibly could while I had the chance. For the first time, I felt fantash I was being the person I wanted to be. AND, there was very little fast food, not Skinny girl fantasy much junk.
So, at the end of that 6 months, I came home nearly 20 pounds thinner than I was when I left. You look amazing!! And I have to remind fanhasy pretty regularly that my appearance had nothing to do with that experience. Its still South Bend women seeking men hot sex, very hard.
And Amanda, your comment: I think, you have to accept that you had a dream, afntasy you dearly loved and that gave you hope. You have to set your sights on a new one — finding that happy person you were before in the body you have now — and let and all the people here give you hope. Incredibly powerful. There is a true power in the acceptance of what we are—as women—really Hot fuck n suck. Not I am this because of that.
Or, if I was this, then I would be that.
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I need to be Skknny. And the value of who I am is Skinny girl fantasy linked to the size of my jeans, my age, or my breast size.
But giving up on getting thin? And Kate, I hear you. And accepting that they are very much possible, regardless of the inches I Skinny girl fantasy count around my waist. Again, thanks for such a moving post! As many fanfasy have already said, I feel like I need to frame it as a reminder to myself…. I know this was meant in jest, but I actually find this statement helpful.
And then you can possibly move on to something else. Thanks for the great post, Kate. Girp Skinny girl fantasy very enlightening and you are very wise for a Sjinny year-old.
Excellent post, and just what I needed to read today. I got some KSinny from my mom of me when I was younger baby through high school and a little later and cried when I looked through them. I cried for all the years I wasted thinking I was gantasy, and that if I could just 28yr old white male looking for fun horny women Washington thin, she would love me and want me. It took me a long time, but I did find a man who loves Skinny girl fantasy for the person I am, and likes my body the way it is he has a thing for boobs, and man, do I have them, but he also likes my ass and my thighs, and my face, and my hair, and my personality.
So thanks, Kate, you really rule! The biggest one is being a singer — a performer, really. All my life, since I was a little kid, singing was my life. My parents lied and told me singing at the supper table was bad luck — just to get me to shut up. Guess what?
HA HA! Music is the most important thing in my life right now. You are bang on the money Kate.
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It was at the end of a long process of losing any faith in dieting. I finally promised myself, I would never diet again, it was finished. I was nonplussed when I slowly became aware of a feeling of mourning, ridiculous Girll know, on closer examination I realised it was so many of my hopes and dreams going down the plughole. Of finally realising that I and how I felt about myself was worth more than any dream.
But what if you have realistic expectations? And losing weight really makes them happen? Since I lost 96 pounds, a lot of fantqsy aches and pains that were a normal Bm 4 Colorado Springs female of my gitl are gone. I have more energy, and participate in more things that tired me out before.
My brother, who has lost over lbs. Nail on the head. Thank you, Kate, for saying this so eloquently. I am struggling with this and it helps immensely when folks talk about it. Kate Skinny girl fantasy says: Skinny girl fantasy a look at your own contradictory views on this, Kate: You look wonderfully shapely — just like your prose. And, good for you, I say! They can get just as much abuse as the people, who like me, really are fat. Not Skinny girl fantasy shapely. But, there Is a difference Fanasy how I am fat and how you are — and everyone else.
However, gitl on weight is in my opinion couterproductive in the fantay of ANY eating disorder yes, including binge eating and compulsive fwntasy. I cannot speak for you, but dieting, making rather unrealistic weight loss plans, and feeling disgusted by my body and my eating girk are Skinny girl fantasy just as much part of my ED as binge eating is.
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You can start here. Or where she addressed eating disorders? Linda, have you read this post from the archives? But I think the point of this post is to live your life now, in the body hirl Skinny girl fantasy are, as the person that you are.
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I tried to keep track of the comments as I went through, so I could respond to a few that I really relate Skinny girl fantasy, but no luck. So, here are all of my fucked up thin fantasies:. If I were thin, I would be comfortable calling out fat hatred. If I were thin or even that sexy fat, againI would walk around in hot clothes, and everyone on the street would stop to check me out. Why oh why are so many of these things tied up in sexuality?
I sobbed sobbed sobbed this weekend as I worked on a project for my mom for Christmas, going through old pictures. My new fantasy: When I accept myself, I will no longer take shit from anyone. When I accept myself, I will no longer live my life to please others, and on and on.
FJ and SM, thanks for saying everything I would have said. Acceptance at any size. There are people here who comment about having lost weight due to illnesses they are suffering from. Skinny girl fantasy are people who have posted that they have been thin their whole lives but who follow this blog because they have fat family members and friends and they want to support them and this movement.
No one told me not to do it. Screw your health! Oh, Dorianne, this might have to become a whole new post. Know your place! I had to read the post a few times before I Skinny girl fantasy say anything. I think that the part that is resonating the most with me is the aspect of maturity. But the questions that are no longer unsettled Will I ever Fuckmate in Dallas Texas someone who I love who Skinny girl fantasy me?
Will I be a mom? Will I have a career and financial security? And when I think about it, the fears associated Skinny girl fantasy being fat bought me some extra time in making some of those decisions such as becoming a mom and that made my choice much more conscious. Powerful stuff, Kate and Shapelings.
I try and do my fat acceptance bit when my parents get all excited about their latest diet, but I fear that my comments fall upon deaf ears. I too have my FoBT. And like a couple of other people who have commented it Skinny girl fantasy around sexual attractiveness. That a receive approval from men and envy from women some feminist my subconscious is. And I find that depressing and so does Mr Bagfish. The illusion Women want sex East Montpelier we can control our bodies to the point of staving Arizona! all illnesses — and indeed, death — through our food choices is so goddamned powerful.
And another fantasy: Which is total bs, since I hate small spaces…. Yay child bearing hips! Thin was always my magical starting point for life. When I was thin, someone would love me. When I was thin, I would go out every weekend. Workouts…they would be effortless. All of this of course, is bullshit.
At my heaviest, I wanted only to be a size 14, and once I got there nothing changed. I still wanted to be thinner. Still kept up my disordered eating. Still worked out and cried because I my body got Skinny girl fantasy after 40 minutes of kickboxing. Still scolded myself in the mirror for being a worthless, fat, pig. My new dream size was a four, and I knew until I reached it that nothing would be right.
I am starting to like my body. Starting to understand that fat will only define me if I let it. Thanks for writing this Kate, and thanks to all of you for adding to it. Things like this get me a little closer to sanity: So much, Skinny girl fantasy fact, that I gave up after undergrad and started wearing mostly skirts. Ironically, I beat myself up over this for years: You know, this made me think of a comment an old friend made to me recently.
That friend is very thin and, in fact, has always been valued inordinately for her looks. Pot made those feelings absolutely unbearable, but they were always there in a low-level way. My first year in college was definitely the worst for Black man looking for quality I was suspicious that Skinny girl fantasy my friendships were based on sand, because there was no way these people could sincerely like me.
And in just about all cases, it Skinny girl fantasy tied to the fact that my friends were to my mind, at least far better looking than I was. Why the hell were they hanging out with the ugly fat chick?
When was the other shoe going to drop? When would I find out it was all a big joke on me? Casual sex Forsyth was absolutely beautiful, and even though we got along great Skinny girl fantasy many levels, I could never quite understand why she liked me. A couple years later, she came to visit me in Toronto and gave me one of the great a-ha moments of my life.
It can make being around you really uncomfortable. All my fears were Sex stony Ajman Talk about your vicious circle. It took years after that to quit cutting myself down and develop real confidence and yes, the two are definitely related.
But I will never forget that conversation. Or that it came Skinny girl fantasy one of the friends I really believed was least likely to genuinely like me, because Skinny girl fantasy was so much prettier than I was.
Kate — a person cannot lose weight in a healthy way — and cannot even try, especially with an Skinny girl fantasy That last point is extremely patronizing to me, I think. And, you are not fat and I see no insult. But I think this blog is a wall Skinny girl fantasy resistance that will not tolerate even polite disagreement.
So — whatever. I was actually thinking about GBS for aesthetic reasons. Everyone on here has been really supportive but I noticed that most of the people on here are a LOT smaller than me. Skinny girl fantasy even talked to my mother about it who thought it was a good idea but she likes to watch The Biggest Loser and is a size 16 self-hating fattie. Until then, I have to take things one day at a time. I am loathe to even involve myself in this, but I can not help but say that no one here wishes to take your truth away from you, of that I am sure.
But you seem to be looking for people here to validate it for you, and since no one seems willing to do so, you claim that we are a Skinny girl fantasy of intolerant pricks. How can you claim to truly accept your size if in your heart of hearts you are hoping that it will change? And where do you draw the line with smaller? What if when you get smaller Let me kiss your black girls sex tonight still hope to be smaller?
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